Is he or she really "The One"? Many people over-analyze the question, using convoluted systems like eHarmony's 29 dimensions. Here's a radical idea — two, just two dimensions: Character & Chemistry. That's it. One, logical; one, intuitive. They are the yin and yang for relationships, and understanding this will change everything you thought you knew about finding "The One."

"When you meet someone whose character and chemistry is resonant with your own, then that has the making of a really good relationship. In Phil's book, I found that that was explained in a way that was really accessible." — Julia Armstrong, podcaster and author of Running to Learn

Phil Dhingra is a motivational speaker and an author of books about personal change. Earlier this year, he visited Hallmark Cards and delivered a keynote speech on self-improvement and app development. His first book Life-Altering Experiences is a collection of stories about life-changing moments in childhood.

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